Oh, how we love TV – new and high quality! To such an extent that they entrust the most precious – their children.
TV, and then the computer is firmly part of the lives of kids. Many parents arrange their children in front of the screen to view the fairy tales and cartoons include wheels with classes. And so all day long. Screen becomes the best friend and tutor the kid. And a happy mommy appears a few free hours. The child does not stick to her with questions and requests. At the same time, the kid learns something new, self-perceived material gets different impressions.
The worst thing is that the parents are well aware of the health hazards. But the concept of these facts are somewhere in the back of his mind. All the same, in the school and the vision falls, and posture worse. And then, there is no time for parents: they are “stuck” between marital happiness and the pursuit of material wealth. Momma-dekretnitsy, for example, often work part time on the Internet, and in the meantime the child brings and all taught by our very present help – TV.
tucked in DVD-player CD with Tutorials and everything. This is how the development of the child in many families.
A few years later, these caring mothers will rely on the unlearned lessons and pull off the ears of monitors and screens of their irresponsible children. And they do not realize that for children is a real psychosis. Do you think that will be with your husband smokes, if it for a whole day to deprive cigarettes? About the same may have children deprived of pleasure to play on the computer or “potorchat” before the blue screen.
So, dear parents, it is necessary not to abuse children and civilization, and ourselves. We are cultivating a generation “on-screen children.” Bad habits are not as frightening as their consequences. And the consequences, “the film adaptation of” today’s children are obvious. In the first place, the alarm sounding the teacher, although many parents see this as bias and chest protect their child from the “tyranny of the school”, not forgetting to blame modern education system in all imaginable and unimaginable gaps upbringing and education.
So, the first gap – the gap in the development of speech. “How is it, in fact the child knew the children’s fairy tales?” – Never ceases to amaze unfortunate mother. But you, mom, limited only to show these tales, not reading, retelling and discussion. So what are you waiting for?
This is why children start late talking and their speech, then, poor and primitive. Many mothers do not realize that their children need the help of a speech therapist, referring to the “costs” of childhood. But burr and other speech disorders can stay for life. And the trend is that speech disturbances have increased over the last twenty years, six times! And do you think – nothing to do with the TV? You are wrong, if so! The baby has to communicate a living person, not a cartoon character. Language acquisition occurs only during a conversation! And an adult can immediately correct the wrong pronunciation and accent. In other words, teach. In the process of live communication includes thoughts, feelings, emotions, hearing, articulation. Live chat is of interest, positive, trust and love for each other. It poured out of the speakers for a long time remains unclear, blurred. That is why “screen kids” in communion screaming because they can not properly explain their desires, or silent or express themselves with gestures. Maybe for some it’s news, but it – not only a means of communication. It is also a means of imagination, thinking, understanding emotions, controlling behavior.
The next space – a “deficit of concentration.” Flickering images on the screen, “shooting” and “race” on the computer accustom to the fast changing experiences. Therefore, small Telemann not able to focus on the long delay anything. For their school and homework – routine. After all, no emotional outbursts, epinephrine, frenetic change impressions. Perhaps children’s cruelty is also caused by a lack of adrenaline. And how it will make up for adult children?
And here is the next space – a low level of auditory perception. Watching TV, more importance is given to the children of the picture, rather than speech. 3D format simply mesmerizing. Often, even the information “between frames” they miss and do not perceive the full. As a result, children can not keep in mind the long about it, even if they came on television, not to mention the live speech. And what about the children, “citing” advertising, word for word? Advertising, repeated a hundred times a day, even a cat … learn to recognize. Therefore, it is difficult for children and interesting to read. They can not keep in mind a number of interrelated proposals.
Well, short of other de facto. Telemann and gambling reflect negatively on the creative activity of children, fantasy. Telemann and gambling are the main causes of childhood inactivity. Children Telemann, gamers can not be friends, and do not need friendship. On the contrary, each new generation of different growth cruelty and aggression. Children unknown mutual feelings, pity, love, patriotism. And from their suffering and cruelty parents. Today’s kids do not fight to the first damper as before. They gather in flocks and hit the “enemy” breaking his bones, kicking in the face. Adults bypass a handful of teenagers party. They are even afraid of men. And this is our dear children! Every parent is waiting for the helpless old age. What will happen? And a generation of our children will grow up?
Dear parents! We and only we are responsible for our children. Do not have to buy off the children with expensive gifts to indulge any request to execute any desire. After all, they need a completely different love. Maybe we did not eat as much candy, but had healthy teeth. Maybe we did not have many toys, but doing them yourself. Maybe we went to school on foot, but had excellent health. Think about it. Spend on their children, not money, and time! You and only you can teach them kindness and to share experiences. And do it with a diaper. Teens who suddenly decided to start properly educate you arrange real “fighting without rules”, and the losers clearly known.
This article does not call to pull out of the socket all your “plasma” or “LCD” to abandon the computer. Just …. Love your child properly, “blind” love is fraught.
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